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Double Happiness: Feng Shui for Loving Relationships

 

1.  Activate all three lucks: Heaven, Earth and Human

2.  Remove from your bedroom:

• stuffed animals, dolls and excess pillows
• photographs of children, family and pets
• distractions of television, electronics, computers and work
• sad mementoes of past lovers
• mattress used in past relationship
• negative symbols such as art work that reflects loneliness, solitude or aggression
• objects or art in triples or singles
• work-out equipment

3.  Add to your bedroom (used only for sleeping and making love!):

• photographs of the both you together in happy times (include wedding and honeymoon)
• romantic art placed across from bed so see it first and last thing
• objects placed in pairs (including matching bedside tables and lamps)
• symbols of lasting love such as Peonies (real and silk), Double Happiness, Love Birds (especially mandarin ducks) or the Phoenix and Dragon
• fresh flowers (especially peonies)
• pink sheets and blankets

4.  Activate the Relationship Gua of your bedroom, living room and home with altars, the element of earth and symbols of lasting love.

5.  Increase the chi of the relationship corner of your bedroom with 40mm clear, red or pink crystal spheres hung on red thread in 9” increments.

6.  Plant two fruit or flower bearing trees in the relationship corner of your yard.  You could also create an outdoor bedroom here.

7.  Make physical room for someone to come into your life by giving ‘him’ or ‘her’ space in your bed (no single beds or bunk beds!) closet and medicine chest.

8.  Place your bed in the Command Position (farthest corner from the bedroom door facing the door with heads up against a solid wall).

9.  Make sure that the door to your home and bedroom open full to 90 degrees; that the handle isn’t loose and the door isn’t stuck.

10.  Create a sensual, loving and romantic haven—whatever style and vibe that’s best for you: hotel, spa, Indian, tropical, Moroccan, etc.

11.  Walk the path from your front door (Mouth of Chi) to your bedroom and clear any clutter, replace burnt-out light bulbs and make as beautiful as possible.  Make the path clear for love and relationships to easily enter your bedroom and life.

12.  Create a collage or vision board of images that speak to your ideal relationship that you want and keep this in your bedroom and gaze on it often.  If you’re already in a relationship, this would make a great ‘date night’!

13.  Place yourself in the “field” of lovers and happily married folks and absorb their happy chi!

14.  Wear pink 9 days in a row.

15.  Locate the Relationship areas of your main floor, your living room and your bedroom. Place lamp and turn on for at least 3 hours a day for at least 27 days in a row. If you skip even one day you must begin to count the ways all over again. Any 3 hours of the day will do, but be sure that if you are about to travel anywhere that will take you away from home for any length of time that you arrange to have that light on a timer or just leave it on altogether. It is widely believed that shining a light on this ‘Relationship’ area can even help move stale or stuck energies while also encouraging harmony and happiness.

16.  Lower the wattage of the bulbs in your bedroom or even change them to pink ones that will emit a soft, shimmery and very romantic glow.

17.  Take two pink candles and put them in white candleholders. Place them in the "Relationship and Romance" area of your bedroom and light them once a day for 27 consecutive days.

18.  Host a Double Happiness party!

19.  Have your Feng Shui consultant…

Check for design details affecting your circumstances (such as a missing relationship corner, exit door etc.)

Teach you the Secret Transcendental Cures such as

• Receiving Auspicious Marriage Chi
• Becoming Engaged
• Four Red Ribbons Marriage Cure
• Thousand Mile Marriage Strung by a String
• Attracting a New Romance
• Adjusting the Chi of Moving Water

 

Have a Feng Shui Valentine's Day Party!

 

Tips for a Feng Shui Valentine's Party!

• Send invites with the Double Happiness symbol on them and ask your guests to wear red or pink clothes, lipstick, jewelry
• Serve cupcakes with the Phoenix and Dragon or peonies on them
• Decorate with bunches of peony flowers; pink and red rice paper lanterns; pink and red lotus votive holders; and spring blossom table settings
• Have pretty pink parasols in rose-infused oolong ice tea
• Have folks light a pair of dragon and phoenix red candles or a pair of red sky lanterns with their wishes for a new or existing relationship
• Read aloud Chinese love poetry
• For party favors, give your guests two brand new crisp bills in a red envelope (with the Double Happiness or Love Birds or Dragon and Phoenix on it) or a 40mm pink Swarovski crystal sphere to put on their relationship altar in their bedroom

 

 

Double Happiness: Feng Shui for Love, Romance and Passion

 

Double Happiness:  Feng Shui for Love, Romance and Passion

 

1.  Create a loving and sensual sanctuary for passion. 

I can’t tell you the number of bedrooms I’ve been in that are stark white, cold and barren.  Then, on top of that, the room is full of photos of dead people, piles of laundry to fold, treadmill and stacks of office work.  Instead, please think “sleek, sexy hotel vibe” or “Moroccan” or “Balinese spa” or “Hollywood Glam” or whatever is romantic for you.  In Feng Shui, bedrooms are used only for sleep and intimacy—that’s it! 

 

It’s an extraordinarily loving act for yourself and/or the two of you to clear all the clutter (especially under and around the bed).  Remove the television (talk about a distraction of time and energy away from your partner!) And let go of any bedding, mattresses, objects or clothing from past lovers or spouses.

 

Deep clean with aromatherapy cleaners.  Finally, clear any stagnant energy with fresh air, incense, bell ringing. 

 

2.  If you’re seeking a romantic relationship…

Walk the path from your front door (Mouth of Chi) to your bedroom and clear any clutter, replace any burnt-out light bulbs and make this passageway as clear and beautiful as possible for love and relationships to easily enter your bedroom and life.  Make sure that the door to your home and bedroom open full to 90 degrees; that the handle isn’t loose; and the door isn’t stuck so all romantic opportunities have an easy time reaching you!  And no twin or trundle beds, have a queen instead, o.k.?

 

3.  Put yourself in the field of happy lovers. 

Go to lots of weddings as well as hang out with happily married folks to absorb their fantastic and happy chi!  Grandmaster Lin Yun says the chi of two people on their wedding day is the highest chi in the universe!  There is a most-wonderful ritual called “Receiving Auspicious Marriage Chi” which the devotees of the temple did with me and Gregory when we were married by him and it was very, very moving.

 

4.  Raise your own chi and open your heart—wide.

Remember that chi attracts chi so lift your up with dancing, singing, acupuncture, prayer or reflexolgy.  Wear bright and sparkling jewelry and crystals as well as alluring scents.

 

If you want someone in your life who is happy, satisfied, generous, sexy, sensual, passionate, kind, funny, YOU be that, too!  Energy attracts like energy.

 

Have a gathering of loved ones (see my blog for super tips on having a Feng Shui Valentine’s Day Party!)

 

See the “Metta” meditation below—it’s fabulous for opening your heart to the size of an ocean!

 

5.  Create a collage or vision board of images that speak to your ideal relationship that you want and keep this in your bedroom and gaze on it often.  If you’re already in a relationship, this would make a great ‘date night’!

 

6.  If there has been fighting or a divorce or you’re experiencing blocked or stagnant chi in your relationship or having marital problems…

Then there may be a design detail such as an exit door in the bedroom or a missing relationship corner.  I encourage you to have an on-site or telephone consultation with me and learn the secret transcendental cures to support a strong marriage such as the “Four Red Ribbons Marriage Cure” and the “Thousand Mile Marriage Strung by a String”.  You should also have me help you clear the negative energy and bless the space.  Please visit www.10KBlessingsFengShui.com or ring me at 503.747.3463 for details.

 

 

Feng Shui for Love and Romance

Some Feng Shui tips for your Valentines Day...

1.  In Feng Shui, bedrooms should only be used for sleeping and making love.  So for your feast of love, please clear any clutter and deep clean your bedroom to remove tired and stagnant chi.  Open window, burn incense, ring bells.

2.  Remove from your bedroom any stuffed animals; photographs of children, family or pets; distractions of television, telephones, computers or work; sad mementoes of past lovers; a mattress used in a past relationship; any art that reflects loneliness; work-out equipment.

3. Add to your bedroom photographs of you and your love in happy times, wedding and honeymoon photos; romantic art; fresh flowers; anything that creates a sensual and beautiful haven.

If you are looking for a lover, consider...

1.  Placing yourself in the 'field' of lovers--go and absorb the chi of happy couples!

2.  Make physical room for someone to come into your life by giving "him" or "her" space in your bed (no single or bunk beds, please!), closet and medicine chest.

3.  Make sure that the art in your bedroom (and home) reflect happy couples--no brooding or depressed singles.